Nero Knowledge · 2025
"Outsmarting reality is like a game of chess in which you are outsmarting your old frequency."
Begin reading ↓I am typically hired by elite six to eight figure entrepreneurs, professional athletes, and Hollywood actors. Not for what they publicly preach about "hard work" or "smart strategies" — but for what they will never tell you: the hidden, esoteric, and metaphysical secrets of the universe that allow them to achieve more by doing less.
I am brought in to help them transcend effort entirely. To show them how to operate multi-dimensionally — where it is no longer about working harder or even smarter, but about stepping into a state where the universe itself seems to be on your side. Where results flow effortlessly from alignment, not force.
"My clients have doubled, tripled, even quadrupled their revenue in weeks — not by working harder or doing more, but by shifting their beliefs and aligning with the success they once chased."
— Nero Knowledge
This is the real secret behind many of the world's elites. It is not that they are intentionally hiding it from the world. The truth is, even if they did speak of it openly, most people would dismiss it because it defies the logic and beliefs that society is conditioned to accept.
"This book will do no more for you than you allow it to. Decide that this book will position you to alter your reality for the rest of your life, and you will position yourself to do so."
When my mother was a little girl, it was her dream to be an author. Nero asked her to write his foreword. What follows is her story — a living proof of the principles within this book.
By Mama Nero
I stood motionless for a moment, clutching the worn-out broom in my hand. My thoughts were far away. I stared intently at one spot near the ragged fence that separated our yard from the neighbour's. What occupied my thoughts was an image of me living abroad. I saw myself working hard to support my family.
I knew back then that I was going to make it — there was no doubt in my mind. I was going to be the one to take my family out of poverty. Daydreaming became my escape. I started to imagine a better life than the one I was in. In that space, I could give my mother money freely, so she didn't have to worry about anything.
I persisted in my vivid daydreams, seeing myself living abroad, sending money home to my mother. I never cashed that cheque my uncle sent. Instead, I held onto it as a symbol of hope — proof that I could escape this life. My intuition told me my uncle was going to be my way out.
Then, one day after I had written my GCSE examinations, news came from my uncle. He was going to send an air ticket for me to attend university in the United Kingdom. When I heard the news, I wasn't surprised. There was no ecstatic moment of joy — what I had been waiting for had finally happened.
"It wasn't until years later, when my son became my teacher, that I realised what had truly happened. I had a burning, overwhelming desire to succeed. That desire led me to create and cross a bridge of incidents that caused my dream to manifest into reality."
— Mama Nero
Somehow, my untrained mind had caused a shift in the universe, prompting my uncle and his wife to make arrangements for me to join them, making my desires come true. I am forever a student of the universe, learning its laws and its secrets with the belief that I can partake in the banquet that is laid out before me.
At first glance the title raises a lot of questions. But outsmarting reality is the only way you will create your desired reality.
If you cannot outsmart reality, then you will always feel like you are a step behind where you want to be in life. Unfortunately, this is how the masses live — forever wishing they were in another reality, without realising that they are simply losing a game for which they weren't given the rules.
The word "reality" may be in the title of this book, but the truth is, it's just you. Until you can make sense of you, then nothing in your reality will make sense, for reality is no more than what you are. You and your reality are one — there is no separation between you.
The Sole Purpose of This Book
To get you to give yourself your desired reality before the world gives it to you. Whatever it is you desire to be in this life, you need to become it before the world proves it to you.
You won't find any sexy new techniques or strategies for "manifesting" in this book. The only things you will find are timeless principles that explain the mechanics of the universe in relation to creation and how it — how you — work. What you are reading is your level of consciousness and nothing more.
Your old frequency will forever be the only thing that holds you back from your new frequency and, as a result, your new reality.
The moment you begin the journey of creating your desired reality, you threaten the existence of something you never knew existed: your old frequency. Your old frequency is a living entity, with its own psychology and its own goals. So long as you are unaware of how it thinks, you will always be a step behind it, unconsciously driven towards its goals without realising.
The easiest way to think about your old frequency is as your doppelganger existing on the spiritual plane — an identical version of you, with all your memories, beliefs, experiences, and feelings, just with its own version of each. It resides in the spiritual plane, hence why it has the ability to affect your reality: before anything can exist physically it must exist vibrationally.
Thought-Forms
Imagine that every time you repeat a particular line of thinking or feel a particular emotion, a stone is placed on the ground, forming a pile. Studies show the average person has anywhere from 6,000 to 60,000 thoughts a day. Over time, those piles turn into mountains — and every repeated thought and emotion is a building block in the creation of an entity that will seek to exist based on what it was made from.
The old version of you is an attention seeker — desperate for your attention. Where attention goes, energy flows. If the old version of you can capture your attention, even temporarily, it has opened the door to get back in. Concentration precedes vibration, vibration precedes frequency, and frequency precedes reality.
The old version of you loves pain, sadness, frustration, irritation, and annoyance — because that's the energy it feeds off. It rejoices in your suffering. Emotions also act as glue, sticking you to a frequency and indirectly to a state of reality. Negative emotions will always glue you to negative conditions.
The old version of you likes existing, so the thought of not existing frightens it. As you shift into the frequency of your desired reality, it attempts to make you unconsciously associate that change with fear so you'll hesitate, retreat, or self-sabotage. That fear of change is not yours — it belongs to the old frequency.
The old version of you is extremely reactive. It will cause adversity in your reality while also short-circuiting your thinking to shut down higher levels of awareness. It wants you caught up in the whirlwind of chaos so you never become aware — because all transmutation first begins with awareness.
Awareness is the only way you'll escape the clutches of your old frequency. Within the adversity that reality presents to you, there is a choice: to live by default or design.
"How would the version of you in your desired reality look at this? How would they feel about this? How would they think about this? If you can keep those questions at the top of your mind while experiencing adversity, the blur on your lenses will begin to clear."
Why do bad things happen to good people? Why do people with the biggest hearts suffer the most? The uncomfortable truth about how the universe actually operates.
To most of us, it just doesn't make sense — and that's because we're making the mistake of thinking like a human instead of thinking like the universe. The universe itself is nothing more than a system, a collection of laws that operate indiscriminately to humans.
"...he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust."
— Matthew 5:45
Fire will treat the good and the evil the same. Rain will treat the good and the evil the same. Gravity will treat the good and the evil the same. Now apply this to the law of creation: whatever frequency you emit will be reflected; whatever your state of consciousness will be materialised; whatever is within will eventually be without.
The Hard Truth
The nicest people often have the worst frequencies — riddled with low confidence, self-doubt, fear, worries, and stress. The most morally questionable people often have the best frequencies — brimming with iron-clad conviction, self-belief, and certainty. The universe doesn't reward good people. It rewards those who match the frequency of their desired reality.
This is a wake-up call: stop thinking like a human, and start thinking like the universe. Uphold your morals, be polite and kind — but make sure the frequency you're putting out aligns with your desired reality. That's all the universe cares about.
How can you control reality if you can't even control yourself? The most unused word in the manifestation space is discipline. There is no manifestation without self-mastery.
There is no way around it. The first step to controlling your reality is through controlling yourself. Through self-mastery, what you truly master is reality — because you and reality are one; it is the same entity simply existing on different levels.
You Don't Have a Discipline Problem
Nobody has a discipline problem. The true problem is that you are disciplined by the old frequency and not the new one. You're disciplined in how you see the world, how you react to reality, how you think and feel. To live a life you don't like requires discipline to maintain that frequency — and that discipline is real power that just needs redirecting.
All self-mastery can be summarised with one line: the ability to follow through on your own conscious commands. Establish your word as law. There can be no "ifs," "buts," or "maybes" — your command in your life is your final say.
Meditation is the cornerstone of spiritual self-mastery. It involves withdrawing attention from the outer world and turning it inward. The ego is addicted to constant stimulation. By practising stillness with your eyes closed for just 20 minutes daily, you begin to assert dominance over the ego. "Be still and know that I am God." — Psalm 46:10
Fasting denies the ego a fundamental desire: food. By fasting, you teach the ego patience and exercise basic control. When your ego demands satisfaction, respond with, "Not yet." Each act of control primes the ego to take commands from you, making future challenges easier to conquer.
Silence suppresses the ego's desire to be heard — a primal need embedded in us from infancy. Monks often incorporate silence into their discipline because it strips the ego of its need for attention. Start small: set aside short periods during your day to remain silent. It's a powerful form of ego deprivation.
"Are you the individual that deserves the reality you desire? Until you can answer that question with a 'yes,' reality will keep saying 'no.'"
The compound interest of the universe will either be your greatest ally or your worst enemy's worst enemy.
Universal compound is the same as compound interest, just with frequency. The more a frequency multiplies, the more solid it becomes, which solidifies it into reality. Einstein called compound interest the eighth wonder of the world: "He who understands it, earns it. He who doesn't, pays it."
"Whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them."
— Matthew 13:12
Frequency Addiction
The most addictive substance in the universe isn't any man-made drug — it's frequency. This is why people stay in the same cycles for so long despite wanting to break free. This is why change feels uncomfortable even when it's for the better — because the mind craves the familiarity of its current frequency. Everyone on the planet is addicted to one frequency or another.
The universe does not want you to change — and it's all because of the two Ms: magnify and maintain.
People rarely break out of their cycles. The universe is a system and, like all systems, it functions best with predictability and minimal deviation. It is efficient, favouring whatever is most convenient and requiring the least effort. By default, it follows the path of least resistance, always seeking to maintain the current state.
Whatever frequency you put out to the universe, it will seek to magnify it using people, conditions, events, and circumstances. If you are in a state of anger, the universe will make you angrier. If you are in a state of abundance, the universe will make you more abundant. The universe is addicted to your emotion — it will get as much juice from the squeeze as possible.
To revert to energetic equilibrium, the universe likes balance. It will do everything in its power to keep you calibrated at your existing level — just to make its own life easier. Whether you're prospering or suffering, whether it's what you want or not, once a frequency stabilises it becomes preserved and protected at all costs.
You will never be able to break the cycle — you will always find yourself in a cycle. The alchemist never attempts to go against the nature of the universe but uses the nature of the universe against itself. You must not attempt to break any cycle. You must switch cycles.
The first step to freeing yourself from the cycle in which you're trapped is becoming more aware. Ask yourself honestly:
After awareness comes transformation: simply changing the way you're feeling on a day-to-day basis to its energetic opposite polarity. Focus on the experiences and aspects of your life that already confirm the existence of the positive polarity — however small they may be. Immerse yourself in those feelings.
You can only have what you already have, and if you don't already have it, you can never have it — until you understand what this truly means.
"The secret frequency of not needing is what will make your desired reality chase you. It has one rule and one rule only: you can't have what you need, but you can have anything you don't need."
— Nero Knowledge
The truths of the universe are hidden in clichés. You stop looking for your keys and then they appear in plain sight. You desperately want to impress someone, yet they're not interested — but when you're just being yourself with no agenda, people are drawn to you. The harder you try, the less the universe complies.
"When you desire nothing, the world will seek to give you everything. To the universe, obsession is repulsion. To the universe, desperation is disrespect. The moment you detach from your desire, it'll do everything to attach itself to you."
No heaven, no manifestation. You will not materialise your desired reality until you live in heaven — not in the religious sense of a location in the afterlife, but in the metaphysical sense.
"Nor will they say, 'See here!' or 'See there!' For indeed, the kingdom of God is within you."
— Luke 17:21
Heaven isn't a location in the afterlife — it is the immersion into the formless state of absolute awareness, a unification with the infinite intelligence, also known as God. In this state, the mind is unburdened by attachment, resistance, desire, wants, or needs — it requires nothing for it has everything.
Hell, being the energetic polarity of heaven, is also not a particular location in the afterlife. It is a state of consciousness — a frequency in which many do not realise they are already living. Hell is immersion into the physical plane alone, consumed by the ego, which takes the world around to be the only truth.
Brainwaves & Consciousness
Hell (survival mode) = primarily Beta waves (12–30 Hz) = conscious mind active, subconscious mind inaccessible. Heaven (relaxed state) = Alpha and Theta waves (4–12 Hz) = slower waves that lead to the subconscious mind — the womb of reality. Those who live in heaven are relaxed, mainly producing Alpha and Theta waves, so all attempts to alter their subconscious are effortless and successful.
"But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you."
— Matthew 6:33
Relaxation is your natural state. True relaxation arises from disconnecting from the outside world — because it is the world that seeks to keep you from relaxation. It seeks to siphon your peace of mind by getting you to focus on work, your inadequacies, family dramas, or the latest news. To immerse yourself in nothingness, to reach that inner stillness, is the true pathway to relaxation.
"Naturally, the mind will begin to tell you how difficult it is to relax — but that is the old frequency speaking. It wants to exist without relaxation, as it knows that relaxation is the stepping stone to your new frequency."
Manifestation cannot occur without a synchronised alignment across all three levels of existence: the mental, physical, and spiritual planes.
This is what you call reality — everything you can see, touch, taste, smell, and hear. Despite the physical plane appearing to be real, it is an illusion. Humans can only perceive approximately 0.0035% of the full electromagnetic spectrum. The physical plane is the realm of effect — it is the smoke from a fire, ripples in a pond. You cannot change an effect by changing the effect itself.
The physical plane is nothing more than the mental plane materialised. The mental plane exists outside our third-dimensional realm — it is not confined by the illusions of space and time. This reveals a liberating truth: you don't create reality. Everything already exists. Think of it like a restaurant where the meals are already prepared — you simply select which one you want.
The spiritual plane is like the oven that bakes your mental creation into the physical plane. The stronger your connection to God, the quicker you'll be able to materialise conditions into reality. Your spirit is the droplet from the ocean of God — and a droplet contains the same qualities and properties as the entire ocean.
The physical plane must always come last. It is the lowest level of existence — not lesser in value, but it is not a causal realm. You cannot outrun your frequency. You cannot outhustle your frequency. You cannot work your way out of your frequency. Action is the external manifestation of internal energy — it solidifies and turns it into matter, but it cannot lead without frequency first.
If you desire to change your reality, then you have lost the race before it's even begun. True manifestation has nothing to do with changing reality.
The True Definition of Manifestation
Manifestation is internally shifting to a degree to which you are no longer emotionally dependent on seeing reality change — when you are good with it and good without it. It is focused on shifting internally, not externally. When you are no longer emotionally dependent on what's going on outside of you, your desired reality can flow to you effortlessly.
The feelings you envisage as your desired destination are actually the starting point. They generate the frequency that signals to the universe that your desired reality is already yours. By feeling those emotions now rather than later, you shift your state of consciousness to the present, setting in motion the external changes that reflect your new reality.
There must be no confusion about what you want to manifest. Define the circumstance, event, or reality with pinpoint precision.
Sit or lie down until you reach a state of deep relaxation and stillness. You'll know you're relaxed enough when your body feels loose, heavy, or weightless, and your mind becomes quieter.
Imagine a scene that includes someone who cares for you — a friend, partner, or family member who recognises your desire by commenting on it in a natural and personal way.
Include a high five, fist bump, hug, or anything that feels natural and intimate with that person in the scene.
Keep the scene short, focusing only on their comments on your desired reality materialising, and replay it again and again on a continuous loop. Imagine it like a movie clip fading out then seamlessly restarting.
If imagined vividly, you will naturally begin to feel the emotions you'd experience upon your desired reality materialising. Feel these deeply. Emotion is triggered by immersion into vividness — sink deeper into the scene.
There is no set time for this practice. The moment you begin to feel strain, effort, or fatigue, stop immediately. Ease out of it naturally and return to it another time.
Pick a single, simple sentence that you would naturally say to yourself upon your desire manifesting. It must be authentic — what you'd truly think or say. If you struggle, imagine seeing your desired reality unfold right now: what's the first thought that runs through your mind?
What is the feeling you'd experience naturally and exclusively upon your desired reality materialising? Clearly define it.
Repeat the sentence in your head continuously throughout the day, feeling what you would feel if it were already your reality. You don't need to say it out loud — just think it, like an internal affirmation anchored in feeling.
The Desire for Love
Part one: A close friend hugging you while saying, "This is the love you've always deserved; you're so happy."
Part two: "I'm finally in the relationship I've always wanted to be in."
The Desire for a Specific Income
Part one: A close friend saying, "I can't believe you're making that much; that's insane!"
Part two: "Now I have more money than I can spend."
The Desire for Business Success
Part one: A close friend saying, "Congratulations, how does it feel to be making X amount!"
Part two: "Sales are coming in like crazy these days."
The Desire for a Specific Physique
Part one: A close friend saying, "You look like you live in the gym — you gotta train me!"
Part two: "I'm in the best shape of my life."
You don't want what you think you want. Until you realise what you truly want, you will not be in a reality where you experience what you want.
For anything you ever want in life, remember this: you don't want what you "desire" but the internal state you believe it would put you in.
The Paradox of Desire
The universe interprets wanting something as an indication that you don't have it. You only want something you don't have. How can you want something you already have? This is how the universe thinks — and wanting is what continuously repels you from ever having it.
"Detachment can only take place when you detach from what doesn't truly exist. Letting go can only take place when you let go of what doesn't truly exist. The more you immerse yourself in feeling how you'd feel upon attaining your desired reality, the less you need it externally — and that's how you detach."
— Nero Knowledge
The blueprint of your desired reality exists within you. Imagine having instructions from the version of you in your desired reality on exactly what to do to get there.
The mistake that most make is acting on a frequency contradictory to their desired reality. The wrong frequency even with the right action will always lead to the wrong reality. In a battle between actions and frequency, frequency wins every time.
If someone is tuned into a frequency of poverty, that determines their intuition — they can only download information from a source of poverty. This leads to mental nudges that reflect poverty, causing action towards poverty, ultimately creating a reality reflective of poverty. This sequence cannot be violated.
Once you alter your frequency to your desired reality, it has a ripple effect through the sequence. You'll be internally guided by the version of you in your desired reality via intuition, receiving mental nudges from that version, taking action that comes from that version — until finally your desired reality manifests.
"Frequency first, action after."
What you stare into is staring back at you and eventually will become you. You don't see the world as it is — you see it as you are.
You don't realise that you are seeing reality through lenses tinted by your state of consciousness or frequency. Perception leads to projection — what we call reality. Most people take a dim view of reality, which can only lead to projecting the worst. Once they experience the worst, they champion that experience as truth, further reinforcing and solidifying that reality — and the loop continues.
The Perception-Projection Loop
Unaware that the way they see reality is the way it sees them, most people never escape this cycle. Your perception quite literally causes you to emit a different frequency, putting you in a completely different world. Perception will act blindly — it can either help or harm you. If your perception doesn't serve you, it will control you.
Ask yourself: If the version of me in my desired reality jumped into my body, how would they look at things? Flex the perception muscle of your desired reality. The more you see reality through this lens, the more reality will see you that way. Changing reality is simply a matter of changing how the world sees you — and to do that, you must change how you see through yourself.
It is arrogant of humanity to think that we possess beliefs. The humble truth is that beliefs possess us.
All beliefs are living entities. As living entities, all beliefs want energy. They seek to convince us that they are truths rather than simply beliefs. When a belief has reached "truth" status, it has accumulated so much energy that attempting to remove it will almost feel like insanity — because "it's the truth." This is its in-built defence mechanism.
Definition of a Belief
A singular thought or a multitude of thoughts that have emotion and conviction behind them. There are no truths in your reality other than what the subconscious mind accepts as true — because what it does believe to be true will be projected and experienced in reality. The entry requirement to the subconscious mind is emotion.
On the moment we experience something in reality, our mind internalises that experience as truth. But we fail to realise it is only true because it was first a truth in the mind. We experience the effect, never taking into consideration the cause — and the cause is always intertwined with the beliefs we have accepted. Reality is the effect; our beliefs are the cause.
When others experience something in reality, they experience it as truth — and then they give us their "truth," which we unfortunately accept so it also becomes our truth. Beliefs are like a virus: they seek to spread themselves around, infiltrating everyone. Whether consciously or unconsciously, we adopt the beliefs of those around us, and those beliefs become invisible to a degree that they are undetectable.
Decide that no belief is unchangeable. Decide that no belief is the absolute truth. Decide that no belief is unmovable. Changing a belief is simply making the conscious decision to believe something else. The beliefs that you currently have are producing your current reality — to experience a new reality, you must adopt beliefs you've never had before.
"If I was living my desired reality, what would I believe to be true about the world? Gently meditate upon this question, and know that answers will come — because they will. The moment they do, adopt them into your current reality."
When creating a new reality, there is no word more important than conviction. This word unconsciously creates the desired reality of people who have never even studied reality creation.
"If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye shall say unto this mountain, 'Remove hence to yonder place'; and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you."
— Matthew 17:20
In the modern world, when people speak of faith they are truly referring to trust — and trust will never be enough to alter reality because it implies the potential for being wrong, which is the breeding ground for doubt. True faith is knowing. You know your name. You know that when a light switch is flicked, it'll turn on. You don't believe these things — you know them. That is conviction.
Self-Trust → Conviction
Before conviction is conviction, it is first self-trust — the ability for you to do what you know you need to do, and to avoid doing what you know you shouldn't be doing. The mind always keeps score. The more you stick to your word and follow your own direction, the more self-trust you build, which directly converts to conviction. Conviction is what activates every technique.
When you expect something, you are anticipating it. Anticipation is a form of preparation — and to expect is to prepare for the frequency you are expecting. Most people expect the worst for two reasons: they've been sold the idea of it, and they've experienced it. But your desired reality must become normal to you before it can become normal to the world.
"Thus says the Lord: 'Make this valley full of ditches.' For thus says the Lord: 'You shall not see wind, nor shall you see rain; yet that valley shall be filled with water.'"
— 2 Kings 3:16-17
"Dig your ditches — prepare even when it is not seen. Act as if your breakthrough is already on the way. Believe it is already done, not by forcing reality to change, but by trusting in the divine timing of provision. You get what you expect."
If someone or something can control your emotion, they or it can control your whole reality. Ancient wisdom has always stated: "he who makes you mad is your master."
"There is a piece of flesh in the body if it becomes good the whole body becomes good but if it gets spoilt the whole body gets spoilt and that is the heart."
— Sahih al-Bukhari 52
If you can control emotion → energy in motion → vibration → frequency → reality. Emotion is the largest shareholder of your frequency. Without emotion, nothing works. It is the true language of the subconscious mind — the language of God. Affirmations without emotion are dead. Visualisation without emotion is dead. It is the missing key that will unlock everything you have been doing.
"For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he."
— Proverbs 23:7
"What you resist persists. Negative emotions aren't the issue — the issue is the mental distortion colouring the energy of emotion. When emotions are fully felt without resistance, they naturally dissolve into pure awareness, revealing the stillness that was always underneath."
To inherit the beliefs of the collective is to be restricted by the limitations of the collective. Detach from the consciousness of the collective or be attached to the realities of the collective.
Society is simply a collection of individuals — a collection of walking universes. The societal universe has one purpose: to acquire energetic equilibrium. In humanity, this is expressed through conformity. Society has its own frequency, with its own mind and its own desires that seek to maintain their existence through materialising in the lives of those who adhere to it.
Collective "truths" are Trojan horses. They appear logical, rational, and sensible, but when looked at from a metaphysical view they do not serve you to any degree. You can't have the same frequency as the average individual and think your reality will be an exception. To be an exception in reality, you must be an exception mentally.
"You must make the irrational, rational. You must make the unrealistic, realistic. You must make the things that don't make sense, make sense. Frequency will forever defy rationality. There are no rules other than the ones you accept."
When sunlight is concentrated it is powerful enough to start a fire. Do not underestimate the power of concentrated energy — in this instance, concentrated attention.
Concentration is a centralisation of energy — a form of creation. Whatever condition, circumstance, or event on which you concentrate will begin to vibrationally resonate with you, eventually compounding into a frequency and then solidifying itself as a reality. Concentration is like a homing beacon, helping whatever you are concentrating on to come and find you.
Attention is Alignment
Your attention determines the frequency with which you align, and your reality will always reflect that frequency — regardless of what you say you want. It doesn't matter how much you desire success; if your attention is on failure, that's where your vibration is directed. It doesn't matter how much you want to be rich; if you focus on what you lack, you're aligning with the frequency of poverty. Reality doesn't respond to your desires — it responds to your dominant concentration.
"If you become aware of which polarity you are feeding, you will know when to switch your concentration away from an unwanted reality to a desired reality. It is a game of awareness."
Your desire to be a "good" person is the very thing keeping you in a bad reality. Until you are willing to break the social contract, you will continue to be signed up to a reality of misfortune, failure, and suffering.
A social contract is the unconscious agreement you've made to gain love, acceptance, and approval by conforming to the expectations and desires of those around you. It exists on three levels.
Your ancestors evolved and survived by sticking together in groups. To your primal brain, a group ensures life — which indirectly and unconsciously means not being part of a group causes death. The default human mind instinctively desires to belong, even to its own detriment. Belonging requires conforming to the collective, so we are accepted.
As babies we learnt which behaviours attract love and which lead to disapproval. Without realising it, you became addicted to those feelings of belonging and conforming. Through the family structure, conforming brings rewards of love and approval, while not conforming brings punishments of rejection and disapproval.
Ideas and beliefs are entities that want to dominate a person's mind. The collective hive-mind is more powerful than any individual entity because it is sustained by the energy of many. It will use its hosts to prevent others from leaving — distributing love and approval through them, and rejection and disappointment when members wish to leave.
Until you can unapologetically accept that attaining your desired reality will lead to those around you considering you a "bad" person, you'll feel guilty for your success. And to avoid that guilt, you will unconsciously avoid your success. You must pursue your desired reality without guilt and realise that reaching it would make you an inspiration to others.
Until you can make peace with being different, every time you conceptualise change your mind will produce nothing but chaos. How will they see me? What will they think of me? Will they still love me? Make peace with being different, and you will find peace in difference. Create chaos from being different, and you will find chaos in difference.
Self-worth is your energetic ceiling determining the limits of what you can materialise in reality. You do not rise to the heights of your desires — you fall to your level of self-worth.
Many do not realise that unconsciously they do not feel deserving of what they desire — and so it never finds them. If you see yourself as unworthy, how else can the universe see you? The universe will never give you more than what you know you deserve. Self-worth determines what you know you deserve, not what you believe you deserve — the two are often mistaken.
Believing vs. Knowing
Self-worth isn't about belief — it's about knowing. Belief lives in the conscious mind, but reality responds to the subconscious, and the subconscious speaks in emotion. The most emotionally intense moments — positive or negative — imprint the subconscious and define your baseline of worthiness. An individual can believe they deserve wealth, but if their most emotionally intense experiences were of poverty, their subconscious only knows poverty.
If others can increase or decrease your self-worth, then they are controlling your frequency — ultimately controlling your reality. People don't see you as you are; they see you as they are. Even when they try hard, they're not seeing you — they're seeing you through their own frequency, their own tinted lens. Why would you let something that doesn't reflect you determine your ceiling?
By allowing the external to take you to the heights of happiness, you unknowingly open the door for it to take you to the lows of sadness. There are no wins and losses — everything is one. See everything you experience as a win and only a win. By doing so, you transcend the duality of losses and all the perception, emotion, and projection that comes with them.
Validation and approval must come from within, and only within. Use your imagination to cultivate an internal experience that intensely stimulates feelings of approval and validation — a scene of people praising you, appreciating you, honouring and respecting you. Use the prescribed technique. In doing so, you detach from external reliance, and you alter what you know, altering what you deserve, and ultimately what you're able to materialise.
Adversity is guaranteed in reality. There will be times when, despite all your efforts, reality feels heavy. How you deal with the frequent lows of reality is true alchemy.
You have been asleep much longer than you have been awake. This means the strength of the old frequency is more solidified and momentarily stronger than the new frequency into which you're currently trying to shift. Frequencies are forever oscillating — up, down, up, down. This is the nature of the universe. You falling back into your old frequency is completely normal. In fact, it will forever happen.
The mistake most people make when they fall back into their old frequency is focusing on their "failure" — which feeds the old frequency, making it stronger. Instead, focus on your past wins. This will tap you into the frequency you had while you were rising. That energy can never be destroyed — it exists within, and you will always be able to return to it.
Things only go wrong because you adhere to the illusion of wrong. There are no detours, unless you create them through the idea that things can go wrong. Look at the "wrongs" of your reality as a delayed form of consciousness making its way out to create space for your desired reality — as opposed to an indication that they still exist and have power over you.
The alchemist takes advantage of the fact that life is meaningless — not that it's valueless, but that the meaning we attribute to reality is just that: what we attribute. The label or meaning you attach to reality will alter your reality to reflect the energy behind that label. To truly alchemise your reality, see everything going wrong as a sign that everything is going right.
The power creating the chaos that's getting you down is owned by you — it has simply been externalised. Any control the external has over you is only what you give it. The same strength of that chaos can be redirected to peace. The waves outside of you can only be brought to stillness by the stillness inside of you. You are and always have been the source of the power.
You now know more than enough. You'll return to these pages. And when you do, you won't be the same. What was once hidden will now be obvious — not because the words have changed, but because you have. This book is you. As you evolve, it evolves with you.
There will be moments when you forget this knowledge and that's okay. This isn't about being perfect — it's about remembering more often. There will be times when reality seems one step ahead of you. When that happens, don't panic. Just come back.
"It's never about what's going to happen. It's about who you're going to be when it does happen."
— Nero Knowledge
Do not ever let the world gaslight you into believing that causality exists in external circumstances. Money is not the source of abundance. Business tactics are not the source of success. No person is the source of your love, validation, or fulfilment. All of these are effects — shadows cast by the light of your own consciousness.
"The only true thing that exists in this universe is consciousness — that is all you have and all you will ever need."